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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.comBlogger97125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-80565515813033523172014-03-19T13:40:00.002-04:002014-03-19T13:44:20.685-04:00Team Bill, O'Reilly that is.....<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Hey All,</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I</span><span style="font-family: Calibri;"> know this is a day late and a dollar short. I <em><strong>also know</strong></em> it is roughly 80 pages long.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I <em><strong>also know</strong></em> that this post is going to get me
in a lot of trouble with the fans of Bey…..but let’s just get it out there…. I
agree with Bill O’Reilly </span><a href="http://youtu.be/3kKZ2WBpEsM"><span style="color: blue; font-family: Calibri;">http://youtu.be/3kKZ2WBpEsM</span></a><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span class="MsoHyperlink"><u><span style="color: blue;"> </span></u></span>regarding Beyoncé's new music.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-HzTF4NZH24g/UynUv2xaj5I/AAAAAAAAAaE/PYMyf7ulzco/s1600/Beyonce.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-HzTF4NZH24g/UynUv2xaj5I/AAAAAAAAAaE/PYMyf7ulzco/s1600/Beyonce.jpg" height="192" width="320" /></a><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"></span>She does have a responsibility to our youth, especially our young girls.
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I saw her as a role model of empowerment
and of substance, which is why I didn’t object to the girls listening to music
like “Single Ladies, Girls Run the World, Halo, and Love on Top”. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> The Beyoncé that sang at the President's inauguration, the Beyoncé full of life and class. </span>I guess I am not used to seeing her as a sex
object.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>What is that the old folks say?
Give a person an inch….they will take a mile.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I have read so many reviews and heard so many talk show
hosts blasting Bill O’Reilly for correcting or questioning Beyoncé’s
behavior.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Now Bill had no right in
questioning Russell Simmons but his inquiry was right on point.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Bill, you will need to ask Beyoncé these
questions, not someone a) who is not her husband and b) someone who is not her
manager/publicist/mama/cousin/etc.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>What
struck me as hilarious in this whole interview is that Russell wouldn’t touch
the issue with a 10 foot pole.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He kept
talking about mediation and Zen.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>(I had
to giggle.)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">As I still hear conversations about how bad Bill O’Reilly
slammed Beyoncé, a grown woman, with a husband, and a child yet I also think
about the fact that Beyoncé is my daughter’s favorite performers.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My daughter is a young girl of 16 with no
husband, and no children, that I know of.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>In the past, although I was not a major fan, I respected her.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Her growth musically; her aspirations; her
empowerment of girls.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Now, I am
teetering on banning Beyoncé.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Wendy Williams (How u doin’?), who came to Beyoncé’s defense
</span><a href="http://youtu.be/V9UtjHmMyZ0"><span style="color: blue; font-family: Calibri;">http://youtu.be/V9UtjHmMyZ0</span></a><span style="font-family: Calibri;"> is totally
right in saying that Beyoncé should be allowed to express herself in any manner
that she chooses because she is grown, has a husband, and a child.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Wendy is also correct in implying that it is
the parent’s responsibility to parent.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>However, both ladies should realize that Beyoncé’s following is
comprised of a myriad of ages, genders, and ethnicities.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Many of whom are impressionable young ladies
and that may act on the lyrics <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><u>without</u></i></b> the husband,
marriage, and the like.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was once a
young impressionable girl and yes, I made it through but with some scars and
issues to bear but my idols really helped me to make some bad choices in the
80s.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">In my day (I sound like an OP (old person), Prince was the
villain with his provocative lyrics.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We
however were banned from listening to him, at least at home.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Prince had a large following of ages,
genders, and ethnicities but we had parents who shielded us from these things
or at least tried to do so.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I still love
him and Prince is still a “Sexy….” You know the rest.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I am not mad at Beyoncé, for being who she is!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yay you! I just want her to realize that Blue
Ivy will one day have a role model or someone they look up to, which may be just as persuasive as she is and I
wonder will she morph into mommy mode when surfboarding is no big deal 15 years
from now?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She will because she a woman
and a mom. She will protect her young!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Don’t
be fooled.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I know she will SHUT IT DOWN!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">So back to my issue, during the Christmas holiday, my
daughter asked for the new Beyoncé CD.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>She is a good kid, with good grades, and generally does the right thing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So we obliged her request and brought her the
CD.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Yes, I did so without listening to
the music or knowing anything about its content.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It had not been preview, review, listen to,
or scrutinized, just a blind purchase for a daughter we love…..wrong move mama
(where is that shield?).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I thought it
would be more of the same girl empowerment music I had heard in the past.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">On our way to Christmas dinner, we played it in the
car.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And boy was my face red! (</span><a href="http://looky.wordpress.com/2008/02/26/young-miss-magazine-from-1971/"><span style="color: blue; font-family: Calibri;">http://looky.wordpress.com/2008/02/26/young-miss-magazine-from-1971/</span></a><span style="font-family: Calibri;">)
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I did not have one but both of my
daughters riding down the highway listening to some very suggestive music.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We did not look at each other the entire
ride.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When we arrived at our
destination, I said, “This will NOT be played on the way home” and “What was
that?”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Neither girl objected nor have we
listened to it again.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>(It was
trashed).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is something we whisper
about in passing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Like, I’ll make you
listen to Beyoncé”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And typically the
response is…..In the words of Jimmy Fallon “Ewwwwww”.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Let me admit, I didn’t have a clue as to what Beyoncé was
singing about.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Until the oldest girl of
21 said, you can google the lyrics.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Why
OH Why did I do that? Again my face was red.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">So Beyoncé mission accomplished. You have created much
conversation, isolated some responsible parents of your followers, and yes, you
have been banned from our home.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was
really surprised when I heard “Bow Down”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Sorry Bey, that act of submission will remain to be reserved for my Lord
and Savior Jesus Christ.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I just read that you joined Sheryl Sandberg, one of my
idols, in the campaign to ban bossiness when it comes to girls.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Great PR move, since you just called us the
“B” word, while remaining “Flawless” to many.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Bill, I stand with you on this one.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I cannot, will not expose nor condone my girls
listening to explicit music or watching sexual shows in my home.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>That is my choice as a parent and again, Wendy
is right I am choosing to parent.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> Beyoncé, your</span> records
will continue to sell and concerts be <u>sold out</u> without my hard earned money but I won’t.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Bottom line, here is my plea…. “Beyoncé please sing
responsibly” my daughters are watching you.</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-36308191167008852012014-02-03T16:12:00.003-05:002014-02-04T08:59:49.274-05:00On to the Next!Last month I closed a chapter in my life. I went from student to Graduate!!! Yay ME! I am very pleased with my accomplishments because I decided in 2008 that a Bachelor Degree was indeed within my grasp. <br />
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On January 25, 2014 at 10:30am, I participated in the 102nd Walsh College Commencement and was selected as the speaker to boot! <br />
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With this new found knowledge I plan to take on the World!!!!...well not exactly, I am just plain wore out right now. World domination will have to wait until I open the next chapter. However, I do plan to use my talent, skills, and knowledge as an asset to help someone else. This is an open invitation to all of the companies clamouring to get an newly minted graduate to give me a call. <br />
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<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-oH-yU165PUQ/Uu__hQUofkI/AAAAAAAAAZU/Mo9B4wugX98/s1600/Cap+and+Gown.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-oH-yU165PUQ/Uu__hQUofkI/AAAAAAAAAZU/Mo9B4wugX98/s1600/Cap+and+Gown.jpg" height="200" width="150" /></a>Right now I am so glad to have completed my degree and will be moving forward in my personal goals. This was no easy task. As a parent, I worked, not one but two jobs and went to school. Also as if I hadn't already deprived myself of enough sleep, I worked overtime and volunteered for every conceivable event I could possibly squeeze in. I also started a Collegiate Chapter of the American Marketing Association at Walsh. With so many commitments, I think I was actually in two places at one time but no one will really confirm it, they are scared by the mere thought of it! <br />
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This busyness has caused me to put so many that I truly love on hold, waiting for this chapter to be done. Well now it's done and time to get on with things; to live a little; to dream more; and become the person that I have imagined. <br />
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Closing this chapter will prayerfully open up some more time to blog, write, and think. Yesterday, I was amazed. I actually had time to polish my toes AND read a magazine. This<em><u> must</u></em> be how the rich and beautiful people live...and I am well on my way.....well not exactly, starting the Walsh MBA program this Fall! What can I say I am a glutton for punishment.<br />
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As I move through this new chapter, I will be updating my blog and emailing info about events and causes that I am supporting. Hope you will ride the roller coaster of life with me and continue walking in faith! I know I always do! <br />
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My Life Is Golden!<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-50865385473601286242013-07-23T09:53:00.003-04:002013-07-23T09:53:51.197-04:00Not My Finest<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left;"><tbody>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">My truth today is that I am not quite pleased with
myself.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I slipped miserably yesterday and
repented for it all night.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There is
truly no defense of my actions but there was causation for my words (they were
not profane, just angry and wild).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The day
started out as usual but ended with a bang!<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Usually I try not to get too involved in things that really
don’t move me because to me that is a lot of wasted energy but I felt that my
small contribution and my calm energy might have kept things under
control.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was working with some highly
charged people and I was trying to be the voice of reason; well all of that
went out of the window when I was demeaned and disrespected. <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">In the light of all of the recent events in the world,
especially in America, everyone has to be careful of their treatment and
respect of one another.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We all have to
seek to listen first then be heard, not to put up defenses and attack but to
come together to create a common good.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I
felt yesterday was an attack!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was
supposed to meet with a group to discuss some concerns and was immediately
disrespected and dismissed although the meeting had been scheduled for weeks
and I was invited.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Now what angered me most was not the fact that I was not
able to voice my one concern but that the group would not face the parents.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was not on the defense when I entered the
room but promptly became very defensive as the conversation continued.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I left in a huff! Then when I returned to ask
a question the very people I was supposed to meet with had been hiding not
wanting to face me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I lost it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Not my finest hour.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Definitely not letting my light so shine.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Certainly not getting an apology. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Surely leaving the wrong impression.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">But at the time I didn’t care.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Later on I regretted it because I feel like
this is just what they wanted, something to talk about.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I also felt like the worst was brought out in
me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> My goal wasn't to attack but to understand. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Although I a thoroughly disgusted with myself for acting
like I did, I am reminded of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s words, “Injustice
anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Sometimes you just have to stand up for what is right. And that is not
always going to be pretty, fun, or easy.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I live in a very diverse population that is becoming more so
each year.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We have to learn how to
handle conflict in a peaceful and professional manner.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We cannot be afraid to face someone because
we have differing opinions or views. We have to become more open to hearing
criticism in the light of our actions and adjust our behavior or defend our
position.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We have to teach our children
that we are not always right nor do we get it right all the time but are a work
in progress.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We have to respect each
other.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">And with that I am done.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">In the meantime…<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Keep Walking in Faith!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<o:p><span style="font-family: Calibri;">p.s. I am still awaiting my meeting and I hope that it goes much better than the first.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’ll keep you posted.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></o:p></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-60339347541049978032013-07-11T16:30:00.001-04:002013-07-11T16:38:49.775-04:00Speak to My Heart<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Speak to my heart Lord.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I am in a season of confession…..I need healing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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end or conclusion as conflicts between people or groups, to reconcile, to free
from evil, cleanse or purify.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I need all of these.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>I realize that I am the common denominator in all of my situations (I
live with me). After reflection I know that it is me, me oh Lord, standing in
the need of prayer. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This week, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I had a conversation with a dear sister
recently and it truly motivated me to dig deeper into my healing issues.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">So Monday, I joined a Morning Prayer group and I found that
I miss prayer.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I haven’t been praying
the way I used to and it is truly affecting my ability to heal properly; to
just get over some stuff.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Not to forget
but to forgive for my own sake.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I have not been connecting properly with the Lord and it is
showing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My conversations with the Lord
have been one-sided; me venting my frustrations and then shutting the lines of
communication down.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I haven’t heard a
word that the Lord has said. I haven’t been still.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I haven’t gotten any direction which I
attribute greatly to my ability to accomplish many of the goals that I have
set.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Even if you are not a religious
person, speaking and listening are important parts of personal growth.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Speak, then listen for an answer (one of my
problems).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You might not like the answer
but it is helpful in guiding and developing the person you are becoming.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Not only has my lack of true prayer affected my connection
to the Lord, it has affected my outward appearance and reflects my inward
pain.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I hadn’t realized how much pain I
carried within me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I believe that am
truly forgiving and giving but lately I have found that I hold grudges and have
become stingy with my time, love, and personal space.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It has not been very pretty.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I know and believe that the only way to evolve is to confess
your fault, repent, and turn.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s the
turning that has me caught in a loop.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I
am in a catch 22 because I know better and definitely want to do better but I
am in pain.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There are some areas that
are still very sore and are still tender to the touch.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s time to deal with those…..<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">So as I work toward a new me; a refreshing; a new beginning,
I have to call on all of you to pray with and for me as I heal and my heart is the perfect place for the Lord to start. It’s not going
to be easy but it is needful.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’ll keep
you posted on my progress but I hope you’ll be able to tell.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-75481604966844021082013-06-27T15:24:00.004-04:002013-06-27T15:59:05.204-04:00Hi My name is...<br />
Hi My name is MiVida & I am a hoarder. Hi MiVida..........<br />
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I have been a hoarder for over 42 years now (I am sure I started when I was 1 yrs old). I took a look around my room yesterday and scared myself. I often joke that my room is a reflection of what is going on in my head and to tell the truth IT IS SCARY. <br />
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<em>I am prefacing this blog post with these comments....my room is junkie but far from nasty.</em> When I say junkie, I am finding that deep in the recesses of my psyche, I am a hoarder. I hold on to things and for the life of me I can't even figure out why I'm keeping them. Initially I have need for the things I keep but after some time, I just have stuff with no purpose or usefulness. I have some pretty boxes that have held some knick-knacks that loved ones have given me; some cute gift bags that I re-purpose to give gifts to other people; and some magazines that held articles about some new, innovative thing I felt necessary to save, share, or hold on to. All of this is just piling up....<br />
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It is time to purge. I often use the excuse that I am too busy, too tired, too bored, too anything to deal with the mounting piles that often land in my room. I try hard to keep my clutter contained but as with any "hoarder (term used loosely)" it usually spills out into some other room of the house. My family mumbles about my stuff and usually places it somewhere in back my room. <br />
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Just like a hoarder, some things are really hard to let go of...for no real, valid reason. I just can't let go. Recently, I threw a bunch of magazines in the trash and lamented about it for days. I had read all of them, probably twice, but it was hard to let them go. I had no need for them, wasn't clipping anything out, just wanted to keep them.<br />
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I realized recently, like yesterday, that all of this stuff (my hoard) is making me lose the things I really need. It is sad when you just brought an item and for the life and love of stuff, you just can't find it, so you buy another. Something has definitely gots to change!!!! Today!!!!!<br />
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Paralleling my life with my room, I find that I hold on to things that are of no real value which in fact clutters my outlook on life. In the past two or three years, I have held on to things that really have not helped me to personally purge and move on. I believe that this a learned behavior. <br />
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I think we learn how to hoard our feelings very early in life. As young ladies, expression is considered aggression and having "too strong" opinions or feelings can get you ostracized by the girls around you. You learn to go along to get along. And sometimes you get lost. Most people equate losing friendships with rejection of some sort and can't see that if it's meant to be the Lord will return/restore the relationship. <br />
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I remember as a child wanting to fit in and even when someone hurt my feelings I refused to stand up for myself because I didn't want to lose the friendship. I would just go along. As I got older, I realized that I am my own person and that I didn't have to do anything that I did not want to. This takes some self examination and some time. Often I find that something still is missing....I still hoard my feelings.<br />
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Since then, I have learned that the relationships that I have in my life are there for a reason and that each one is different on purpose. Relationships evolve and often for the better of both parties. People develop deep relationships with others and when it is time to let go it is hard to so because of the level of the relationship. However, in order to grow I have learned to become a woman of YES when it comes to new experiences and let go of some things familiar. <br />
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I also learned that it is important that we allow the past to be the past and look for opportunities for the new. We learn from the past, we should not live in it. We can reflect on memories, good or bad, but that should not be our dwelling place. We do have to take a few moments to understand how we got to the place we are and then make a change to correct the behavior. We have to let go of the stuff that we hoard internally because it reflects externally and people can see it.<br />
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So as of today... and you can hold me to it, I am purging mentally and physically. I am throwing away some stuff, hanging up all my clothes, straightening out my closets, storing all the winter garb away and making peace with some internal issue and problems that have driven me to the place where I am...Hoarding. I refuse to hold on to things that are out of my control, should be immediately dealt with, or that I am not responsible for. I cannot change others, I can only pray for the change in me. <br />
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I am still walking in Faith,<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-27580521985773242632013-06-13T11:16:00.004-04:002013-06-13T11:16:57.250-04:00Growing Up!<div style="text-align: justify;">
I admire people who seem to be all grown up. Everything just seems to be handled and in place. They are able to muster up the courage to fight battles and never blink an eye. They have a solution for everything and offer advice, typically unsolicited. They are the "grown ups" in our lives. However, I really think that despite the outward appearance, there is still a child inside. I don't believe the child in us ever really grows up!</div>
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Even at my ripe old age, I find that I am constantly growing up. Often this shocks me because somewhere inside I too still long to be a kid. I often reminisce about growing up and peer pressure, boy pressure, school pressure. There are things I both love and loathe about my childhood. Some self inflicted but some were just growing pains. I am sure all of it has made me into the person I am today. I had a conversation with someone recently and I commented, "I am grown on my own". Meaning that I am an individual. I handle my own problems. I reach out when needed but ultimately I am the decision maker and consequence taker. By golly, I am grown!!!!</div>
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Sometimes my children seem to think that the rite of passage is determined by a number: 18, 21, 25, etc. But being a grown up to me is a level of maturity and responsibility. Taking account for the decisions you have made and either holding your head high or repenting because of a choice. But in the end owning up to all your stuff.</div>
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Daily I realize that as the mom, I too have to exemplify a "grown up" stature. I do understand that I can be wrong, admit it and still be in authority; that I can make a fool of or laugh at myself without losing position; and I can be me, vulnerable, crazy, or quiet without being questioned. </div>
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I must give a shout out to my youngest daughter, the CCM (chocolate cheerleading mouse). Take a seat and HOLD YOUR BREATH.......</div>
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<u><strong>Recently she quit cheer.</strong></u> </div>
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<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-GWn4aRijRyk/UbnhWZD2OBI/AAAAAAAAAW8/wFh-x2x-j4g/s1600/photo+(1).JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-GWn4aRijRyk/UbnhWZD2OBI/AAAAAAAAAW8/wFh-x2x-j4g/s320/photo+(1).JPG" width="239" /></a>Yes, she let go of the love of her life in pursuit of something else. Her decision was entirely her own and a shock to us all. No more scheduling our lives around practices, meetings, traveling, etc. No more early more travels and late night pick ups. And just what would we do with all the extra money.....? She grew up enough to make the decision to walk away from something that brought her so much joy, to reach for the unknown! SHE STEPPED OUT ON FAITH! And walked away......</div>
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In her 15 years (almost 16), she has seen me make the hard decisions and be challenged to see what else could be. She has seen the transitions of my life up close and personal and walked with me through the rough times. She has endured lack and encouraged me that things will definitely get better; yes she has been spoiled but she has also be appreciative. She has complained but rejoiced as well. She has been a trouper and sometimes a party pooper but yet she has understood the words "in due time...."</div>
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Her grown up decision has opened some new doors. My daughter desires to go to Spelman and with her recently decision, we can schedule her tours and even her summer visits next year. Her next trip is to Disney World and then to Chicago. (She has a traveling bug....but she got it honest). She can do some much need community service and even join another club and expand her experiences.</div>
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So I conclude that my daughter is also "grown on her own". I am watching her make decisions and be totally secure in the consequences. I am now the onlooker and I see that she is a leader and a thought provoker; she is my little diamond and faith walker; she is a beautiful lady and a good friend; she is Sydney and she owns it! No she is not defined as a CCM anymore but this is only a chapter of her life, this girl is on FIRE! And I love her to life.</div>
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Keep walking little sister, I see your faith!</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-61882026928740017622013-05-28T18:39:00.003-04:002013-05-29T09:11:36.575-04:00Blank Page Blues<br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I have the blank page blues….I hate when this happens.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You can liken it to writer’s block or lack of
imaginative focus, but whatever we call it, I’ve got it.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Every week, I find myself stuck. Even with my handy dandy
content calendar, I cannot think of anything timely or relevant to
express.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is an empty feeling. I often
worry if anybody is out there.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Is
anybody actually being engaged, encouraged, or uplifted knowing that everybody
goes through some type of struggle or life event. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Everything is not perfect.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">While there is no lack of activity in my life, finding a
story that is compelling, motivating, and in essence humorous, is often a
challenge.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">So as I stare at a blank page. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I use the writing technique of brainstorming
to see what flows out of my overcrowded mind: bills…depressing, yard
work…boring, job…not even gonna…so I type and I stare out the window. The rain
is dampening my hopes of a lively, endearing story or tale.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Everything is just wet…and gray.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Soooooooooo…..look at these great shoes......</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">What has transpired this week that has inspired me?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>What great feats have I accomplished that I
must brag about on the blog of my existence? How should I inspire the readers
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">*Crickets* Can’t think of a thing?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">However, even in the midst of brain freeze, blank pages,
writer’s block or any other hindrance to me expressing my thoughts on paper, I
still am so thankful and grateful for all that I have, know, feel, and
think.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Writing is definitely a process
and takes time and effort to bring forth the best.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s just like life, we live, we love, and we
learn.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Our lives are full of experiences
that we can learn from, share, and appreciate the lessons.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When I write I use this platform to help
others to grow and laugh.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">This new emergence of thoughts and writing has ignited the
FaithWithHeels flame.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am ready to get
back in action and get connected to women (& men) who want to see others
grow in business, life, and living.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-68890474866010120062013-05-21T20:44:00.001-04:002013-05-22T12:22:30.352-04:00Help OklahomaToday's post is dedicated to the people of Oklahoma.<br />
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Moore, Oklahoma and surrounding cities were hit with several tornados that ripped through, ravaged the cities, and uprooted lives.</div>
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The thing that is most devastating is that the tornados went right through a elementary school. To date there were 24 people who lost their lives but what has really effected me was the nine children killed during this act of nature.</div>
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Like many of you, I watch the news in complete shock. I looked at the way nature had level buildings, tore up trees and moved cars as though they were matchbox size. The people of OKC although prepared were not ready for such an act of nature. </div>
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As always American stick together and weather any storm or destruction. We have an opportunity to extend our hands and help someone else in need.</div>
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So I am asking that everyone do something to support the people of OKC. Contact the American Red Cross for ways that you can help<span style="font-family: .HelveticaNeueUI;"><span style="-webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.230469); -webkit-composition-frame-color: rgba(77, 128, 180, 0.230469); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.292969); font-size: 15px; line-height: 19px; white-space: nowrap;"> </span></span><a href="http://www.redcross.org/m/index.jsp">http://www.redcross.org/m/index.jsp</a>. Or call <a href="tel:313.833.4440" x-apple-data-detectors-result="1" x-apple-data-detectors-type="telephone" x-apple-data-detectors="true">313.833.4440</a>.<br />
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<a href="http://usnews.nbcnews.com/_news/2013/05/20/18381508-how-to-help-oklahoma-tornado-victims?lite">http://usnews.nbcnews.com/_news/2013/05/20/18381508-how-to-help-oklahoma-tornado-victims?lite</a><br />
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I encourage you to keep walking...</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-83355051713023691712013-05-14T15:53:00.000-04:002013-05-14T15:53:01.730-04:00Can you Hear Me now...
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<span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 115%;">Therefore, my beloved brethren, let every
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I am not very good with communication and sometimes my mouth gets me in a lot
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<span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">I think that commercial, "Can you hear me now?" is not just funny because we lose connection, but it is funny because even when we hear each other, we don't understand. We are not communicating.</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 115%;">I did some
observational research recently and realized that people just don’t know how to
talk to one another.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Everyone has a
point and wants to convey it quickly but cannot or will not take time to
understand another person’s point of view.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Everyone talks over everyone else, we cannot wait to convey our message,
and sometimes don’t even realized the point.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>We communicate through text and email but can’t hold a conversation in
person.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 115%;">I am guilty of
having a hard time communicating, especially with those closest to me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I know what I know, know what I want, and
that is the direction I am headed in.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I
am guilty of not hearing or seeing someone else’s point of view, or even being
myopic in my own thinking.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But I am most
guilty of shutting down.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I prefer not to
have conversations or communication that is leading me nowhere fast.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I recently discovered that I am horribly
guilty of ending conversations fast.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I
had a discussion with a friend and we didn’t talk for a while.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We did talk eventually but I had to admit, I just
shut down because I prefer not to argue or get angry.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But that is not what the scripture or communication
is all about.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #001320; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 115%;">Communication:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 115%;">The</span><span style="font-family: Calibri;">
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about the verbal message but also the cues we give one another through are
actions and deeds; through the lack of messages; and through our opinions and
beliefs.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We all have times when we are
quick to speak, slow to hear, and very angry…That’s when communication is
needed most.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 115%;">I am working on being swift
to hear.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Therefore, I am using the
technique…”Let me repeat what you said”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>I just want to get it right. I need to listen more. Often I make the mistake of misunderstanding what someone is saying just because I am not listening.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 115%;">I want to hold my
tongue.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Therefore, I am using the W.A.I.T.
technique…”Why AM I Talking?”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If it is
not valuable then I better keep it to myself.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>I am sure my friends will enjoy some peace and quiet for a change. I
learned to season my words with Grace and Salt…Grace when I am guiding you in
love and salt, when I have to tell you something that may hurt.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 115%;">And being slow to
anger.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am counting to ten a lot.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Some things are just not worth the energy.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I find that people get so angry over the
smallest things and blow up over nothing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>It turns into World War 3 because someone cut in line and the local
Panera.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Chillax!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They have thousands of bagels, I promise.
(This actually happened today.)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.5pt; line-height: 115%;">So my goal this week is to
speak less, listen more, and chill. Let’s see how this goes….I’ll keep you
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-11204203576278098582013-05-08T00:33:00.001-04:002013-05-08T17:07:44.001-04:00Flip FloppingGood Morning All,<br />
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As Summer approaches I am on the hunt for a few good pairs of flip flops. This if course got me to thinking about the word, flip flop.<br />
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For those that know me, know that I ruminate on things and will find a deeper meaning in them. </div>
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I thought about flip flip not as some cute little shoes worn in the Summer, but the idea of flip flopping in my decisions and being more sure and secure in what I decide. </div>
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I consider myself very flexible and can adapt to almost any situation but in hindsight I realized that I have flipped flopped on some issues that I should have stuck to my guns. </div>
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In my younger years, peer pressure was all the rage and I dare not go against the grain for fear if standing out; I already had the weird name. So when we weren't talking to the new girl, although she was cool, I flip flopped and joined the mean girl team. A decision I truly regret and now I detest bullies.</div>
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As I graduated high school, I still hadn't found my footing, so being a grown up didn't necessarily mean making adult decisions, so we trouble came, I flip flopped and changed tunes as a method of conflict resolution. Right or wrong, I had no backbone.</div>
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Fast forward to today, I now understand why elderly people get to speak their minds...really they have nothing to lose, no one to impress, and so very sure of who they are. I'm not quite there yet but I can truly say that my flip flops are now only footwear and not my current method of decision making.</div>
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As an adult and parent I am responsible for showing my family that honesty and integrity matter; that truth is always right; that we face problems and issues head on; and that no matter what happens today, tomorrow we get to try again. </div>
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I found that in life, we can choose our direction. I also realize that we must pray constantly, and wait on open doors to guide our way. There is no reason to flip flop through life, unless they are cute ones on our feet.</div>
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I encourage you to Keep Walking in Faith (even in your Summer of flip flops).</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-54683932594506290472013-04-30T17:08:00.001-04:002013-04-30T17:09:19.948-04:00Are You Kitten Me?<br />
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Today I AM going to vent!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>When my daughter was young she used to say “are you kitten me?”, so I
thought it appropriate to bring it over into today’s discussion and also show
you some cute little heels!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">I am thoroughly discouraged by my familia.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The jokers living under my roof! The
moochers! The money grabbers! The loafers! The crumb-snatchers! Shall I go on…..?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">It kills me to no end that life isn’t getting any easier
with young adults living at home.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I
would so trade places with </span><a href="http://mimidlifemaven.blogspot.com/"><span style="color: blue; font-family: Calibri;">MI
MidLife Maven</span></a><span style="font-family: Calibri;">, it isn’t funny.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Now I
don’t know her complete living situation but having a kid out the door sounds
like a little bit of heaven!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">My two older children are of the college and <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><u>full employment</u></i> ages.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My son, the oldest, “the leader of the slack”,
decided to take several years off from school and is now interested in pursuing
his college career.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I applaud this
effort but I am of the mindset that you definitely can do more than one thing
at a time buddy.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Look at me; I’m
juggling, sewing, driving, cooking, studying, working, sleeping, and showering
all at the same time.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">He seems to think that he should just ease into school and
out of working because working and going to school is going to be a lot.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>No joke pumpkin.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My moochers know I don’t tolerate any
laziness...so he better not be surprised when his new living quarters are in
the garage. Yes dear, You CAN work and go to school, AND to top it off you don’t
have the added pressure of mortgage, bills, and people to feed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ARE you kitten me? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">My middle girl, “the responsible one”, has recently gone b-a-n-a-n-a-s
(not the good bananas, Rachel Zoe says, but the crazy koo-koo bananas that
makes you fear for the future of the world).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Last year she got a nice used car with less than 40,000 miles on
it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The deal was to drive it back and
forth to work and school.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Well you know
how well that went over, school became driving to friends house, driving people
to Africa, going to the Moon, etc., all with no maintenance or oil changes, the
engine went bye-bye. UGH! So now here we are with a car note, insurance payment,
and no vehicle to drive.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Now she says
that when she gets her next car, cuz she just knows she’s getting one, she’ll
know to get regular oil changes….Are YOU kitten me?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>That was basically the only conversation we
were having the whole time you had your car…Get your oil changed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Instead of good morning, I asked how the car
was.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Now</i>
she’ll remember after one perfectly good vehicle has been immobilized.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Again, I say!….ARE YOU kitten me?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Haven’t had enough yet?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Then we get to the youngest, “the chocolate, cheerleading
mouse”(CCM),” the current taker of the largest share of the wallet”, this one had
lost ALL her hurkies!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For 4 score and
twenty years, we haven’t had living room furniture, mainly because I was
waiting on people to start moving out of the house.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I figured I would start working on the living
room as the house grew empty…but no, they keep going and coming, like ants at a
picnic.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So I waited and I waited until I
just couldn’t take it anymore and I brought some furniture for the living room.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So one day recently as the story goes, the
CCM used the couch as part of her cheer stunts!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>She has run up and down the couch and has leaped off of it!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>What….Wait….ARE YOU KITTEN ME?!!!!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Her explanation was it was quick and she was
just so excited and…“the couch was <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">right</i>
there.” So an edict has gone forth, no one but my company on<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>the couch for the next 10 years.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">Last but not least, we move on to our sweet little Chanel…the
fur ball of our lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was adamantly against
getting a pet, since I knew that it would be my new responsibility.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But the CCM talked her dad into getting her
one and I fell in love!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Chanel was doing
so well then kaplowie….off the wagon.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I
come in one day and find that Ms. Chanel has been tinkling on my new rug. A
light bulb goes off….that’s where she’s been peeing. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>ARE YOU KITTEN ME little doggie?!!!!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">What in the world has my house come to?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Calibri;">So this week, the slacker, Chiquita gone bananas, the
Choc-cheerleading mouse, and the cute little dog better get it together.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am putting on my heels and I am getting the
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com18tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-79970743238004301982013-04-23T11:06:00.001-04:002013-04-23T11:08:20.606-04:00Mi Vida is my message<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-cmK4KP2MU0E/UXaca3NlEWI/AAAAAAAAAU0/pTWzbK6Eq7I/s1600/slippers+2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-cmK4KP2MU0E/UXaca3NlEWI/AAAAAAAAAU0/pTWzbK6Eq7I/s200/slippers+2.jpg" width="163" /></a><span lang="EN" style="color: black; font-family: "Helvetica","sans-serif"; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN;">My Life is my message. <em>Mahatma Ghandi</em></span><br />
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<span lang="EN" style="color: black; font-family: "Helvetica","sans-serif"; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN;">As I
slip back into this world of blogging, I realized that I am a little
boring.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I would love to have some great
exciting things happening to me daily, so I could “Wow” readers with my
exploits.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>However, I realized that being
exciting is costly.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I looked into a trip
to skydive…I figured that would be very exciting and it is.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It also cost a whole lot too.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So does hot air ballooning and horseback
riding lessons, etc.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="color: black; font-family: "Helvetica","sans-serif"; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN;">So I
guess until I hit the Mega-jackpot of something, then I will remain “boring” and
excite you with my wordsmith-ing or better yet my life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Although I am not jumping out of planes or
flying across the world to taste exotic foods, I am doing what all of us do
well.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am living my life.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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not easy and in everything we do there should be a lesson.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>All of us learn something daily.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>From our experiences, we associate things
with encounter with lessons we have learned.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Some lessons are good, some not so.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>I just love this quote, “Life’s challenges are not supposed to paralyze
you, they’re supposed to help you discover who you are.” <em>Bernice Reagan Johnson</em><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> Many of my challenges...lessons have helped me to be a better me.</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="color: black; font-family: "Helvetica","sans-serif"; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN;">Some
<strike>challenges</strike>, I like to call them lessons, make you pause for the cause…but I am
a survivor!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>What hasn’t killed me has
made me stronger! </span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span lang="EN" style="color: black; font-family: "Helvetica","sans-serif"; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN;">(Thanks Bey and Kelly Clarkston, oh yeah…&
Gloria Gaynor, she survived first.)<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="color: black; font-family: "Helvetica","sans-serif"; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN;">I do
believe life should be lived to the fullest but it is the small things that make
us who we are.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We have people we love
and who love us; we have jobs, whether we love them or not, we get up and go
there daily to live; and we have an opportunity to improve our current
situations by becoming a better us.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Our lives
are the messages we send.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="color: black; font-family: "Helvetica","sans-serif"; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN;">If we
don’t like the message, we have the power to change it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We set the tone and can overcome any obstacle
because we believe we can.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am in
school because I want to change the course of my career.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I attend church because I believe in a power
greater than me. I am a great mother. And so on and so on….<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="color: black; font-family: "Helvetica","sans-serif"; line-height: 115%; mso-ansi-language: EN;">I have
so many facets to who I am. I realize something new about me every day.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So this week, think about your life message…What
does it say and does it represent the true you.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Start creating your message and sending it out.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It’s your life and you can say whatever you
want. Slip on your favorite shoes and Keep Walking...you have just started your journey.</span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-61789772684021906992013-04-16T21:34:00.000-04:002013-04-16T21:34:16.959-04:00BARE.....Hi Friends…..I have returned. <br />
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This morning is the start of a very new chapter in my life. Returning to writing. For the longest time, I haven’t felt the urge to share my feelings. I felt like it was…is futile. I wasn’t looking for any great revelations or any notoriety, just some open dialogue with other women, moms, friends, ladies who could relate. But so many times, I felt that my words fell on deaf ears/blind eyes. While I received comments occasionally, I desired constant feedback. <br />
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• Lesson one…don’t desire feedback.<br />
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I didn’t create my blog to vent, rant, or complain, I did it for me. Sometimes just to bare my soul and other times, hopefully just brighten your day. I wanted to be a voice, your voice, your friend, your buddy and myself. Often, that’s just not enough…..or is it. <br />
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I recently heard Jay-Z’s song, “ Open Letter”,(yes….I heard it) and I understand why he did it but unlike Mr. Z, I’m not bashing or re-hashing, I’m shifting, gifting, and baring it all…..I’m telling my truth.<br />
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In 2011, as my life changed and so did my writing…It mirrored my soul and nothing emerged. I just felt like this piece of paper (pre-typing) BARE. I had/have some great things that were budding in my life during this time but a cloud lingered over me and I just couldn’t shake it. It was like those commercials where the cloud follows the lady and makes her fall into a hole, then with the help of this miracle drug, she emerges and takes back her life….but anybody notice that the cloud is still there. <span style="font-size: x-small;"><em>(That commercial cracks me up every time….I always yell” But the cloud is still there”).</em></span> I am not sure if the people around me noticed or cared that I was under a cloud and to me, that’s the scary part. I started packing on pounds not just physically but mentally and spiritually too. I was carrying too much weight. <br />
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The thought of baring it all (naturally or mentally)….UH NEVER. You’ll never get a glimpse of me naked….<br />
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• Lesson Two: In order to heal, we have to reveal; bare it all and sometimes be ashamed…Trust me it is very cathartic.<br />
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Personally, I hadn’t visited my own blog since December of 2011. As I went out and spoke at conferences around the nation, I cringed every time someone mentioned FaithWithHeels, mostly out of embarrassment and conviction because I had left something I loved; abandoned and alone. I had friends who nudged and encouraged me to get back in stride but I just felt like laying down my keyboard and letting go. <br />
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FaithWithHeels has a presence and I HAD to be present to make it work. If I checked out, no one will really notice…right? So as time passed, my guilt about FaithWithHeels waned and I would only discuss FWHs if I was confronted with it. The sad part is, that was one of the most enjoyable times of my life, but other personal issues just clouded the joy in it. <br />
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• Lesson Three: Do what you love, even if you are the only one doing it. It doesn’t matter if you love it.<br />
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This semester I landed in a social media class and guess what?! First assignment is creating a blog….I guess the Lord isn’t finished with me yet. <br />
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<li>Lesson Four: Don’t run from your calling or destiny…The Lord always has a way of getting you exactly where He wants/needs you to be.</li>
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So I return “once again”….and hopefully you are still here. You are waiting to hear from me and boy do I have a lot to share. Some of it is very funny and some will make you stop and stare. Join me on this journey even if it is only for a while but I promise it will be entertaining, exhilarating and engaging….or just plain hilarious.<br />
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I’m starting over and baring it all….I’m taking my shoes off and starting fresh….FAITH…with NO Heels.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-9170962640871186872011-11-19T23:47:00.001-05:002011-11-22T20:47:32.182-05:00What the Muppets Taught MeHello All,<br />
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I had the wonderful opportunity to preview the new Muppets Movie!! It is fantastic!! <br />
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This movie is very reminiscent of the older Muppet movies and the nostalgia of it all. <br />
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I took my girls, ages 14 & 19 and both laughed out loud, got into the whole movie plot, and even updated me when I had to go out and get snacks. <br />
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This movie is a great family film. Today, we are missing movies and events that bring us together. The Muppets is a great way to bring the gang all together no matter what age. I sat next to a two year old who giggle and pointed the whole time. <br />
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This Muppet movie is all about coming together and seeing a dream come to pass. There are musical moments and lots of singing. And as always the fabulous, Miss Piggy.<br />
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This movie is truly 21st century with a bit of history and the good old times mixed in. <br />
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As I watched this movie, I remember sitting in front of the TV watching the antics of Animal and giggling at Gonzo. I remembered how much I loved the Muppets and was glad to share this experience with my girls.<br />
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*Movie Passes were provided by FurstAccess. Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-34966325317192178622011-09-21T15:30:00.003-04:002011-09-21T22:18:42.641-04:00Watch Extreme Home MakeOver! You&apos;ll Love it.<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-KbKQJZ7U5lc/TnohL5jcDuI/AAAAAAAAARI/-aFu9Odjon8/s1600/extreme-makeover-home-edition.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" hca="true" height="112" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-KbKQJZ7U5lc/TnohL5jcDuI/AAAAAAAAARI/-aFu9Odjon8/s200/extreme-makeover-home-edition.jpg" width="200" /></a>I am so pleased with ABC!!! I had the opportunity to preview the Season Premiere of Extreme Home MakeOver (EHM). This is going to be an exciting season. </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><em>First, I must say that I am not being paid to promote this program and all views are my own.</em></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">As you all know, I love stories of triumph. I love to see transformation. I love to see people helping other people because it is just the right thing to do. I love seeing lives changed because we chose to make a difference for someone else.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div>WELL....That is what this Sunday's Extreme Home MakeOver is going to do. Get your tissues out because this show had me in tears. <br />
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For those who don't know what Extreme Home Make Over is about, here is a short recap. Ty Pennington, the host, receives letters about people who are in need of a home makeover. Typically, the recipient has an illness, is a community advocate, or a person with an extreme hardship. Hence the title "Extreme Home Makeover." They come to town, assess the situation, and build the family a brand new dwelling in just a few days. This is done, of course with the help of several local groups, businesses, and volunteers. The house is revealed and we are all crying. <br />
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Now on to the season premiere. <br />
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The first show, this season, is dedicated to supporting, helping, and understanding the needs of our Military Families. We all know someone or associate with someone with a family member in active duty. Extreme Home Make Over decided to support this cause with the help of our First Lady, Michelle Obama. First Lady Michelle and Dr. Jill Biden, are the initiators of the Join Forces (<a href="http://www.joinforces.gov/">http://www.joinforces.gov/</a>) program for Military families, so she asked the EHM to help her bless Steps & Stages Jubilee House (<a href="http://stepsnstages.com/contact.html">http://stepsnstages.com/contact.html</a>) in Fayetteville, NC. Barbara Marshall, a retired veteran, is the owner and operator of this house. Her goal is to never see a female veteran homeless, helpless, and without support.<br />
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Despite any of our political views, I have to say that the First Lady of our country, America, is a class act. <br />
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During the show, Barbara was residing in her tiny home, with 3 other families as well as supporting 70-80 women veterans per week. Can you say a packed house? Barbara's husband James died last year, and the house was in need of much repair, space, etc. Yet, Barbara and her housemates, Judy Hilburn, Heather Alojado, and Nikki Harper were all making do. Many women spoke of Barbara's diligence and commitment. Being a former Commander, didn't hurt her tenacity either. <br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Well as you know if you watch the show, the family was in Orlando at DisneyWorld, enjoying the fun and as the show goes, so many surprises come to them during this time. Ty Pennington and First Lady sent a message to Barbara and the crew letting them know that they were in good hands as they tore their former dwelling down. Barbara's daughter Maya, who is in active duty, showed up. </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Sears stepped in and helped the local women veterans with resume' writing, clothing, auto repair, etc! Plus they are also donating full wardrobes to the Steps and Stages Jubilee House. Sears Rocks! I am a former Sears employee by the way!</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div>So finally the house is finished and it is beyond words. The residents of Jubilee House actually get to meet First Lady Obama and they are now able to work, live, and support others in this beautiful new house. If you are not crying by the end, I just don't know what to tell you.<br />
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You have to see the story and total transformation for yourself, on Sunday, September 25, 2011 7/6c, but check your local listing for ABC and for goodness sake, DVR it! Right now, you can go to the EHM site on ABC and see the photo gallery from the Jubilee house (<a href="http://abc.go.com/shows/extreme-makeover-home-edition/photos">http://abc.go.com/shows/extreme-makeover-home-edition/photos</a>).<br />
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And although, they have received a great deal of help from Extreme Home Make Over, they could always use the help and resources of others. So below the mailing address and phone number for Steps & Stages:<br />
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Steps & Stages, Inc.: <br />
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Resourcing Disabled Women Veterans<br />
P.O. Box 9764<br />
Fayetteville, North Carolina 28311-9764<br />
Tel: 910.977.2303<br />
email: <a href="mailto:womenvets@stepsnstages.com">womenvets</a>@stepsnstages.com<br />
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Please watch this show and support your local military families.<br />
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In the meantime...Keep Walking in Faith,<br />
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MiVidaAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-64792139263848230612011-08-16T19:00:00.009-04:002011-08-16T19:00:00.733-04:00I'm Sorry<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-4vZgdds5EXk/TkptrVIN82I/AAAAAAAAARE/OOnXA3LaEc8/s1600/Mojo+Moxy+Poppy+Pump.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" naa="true" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-4vZgdds5EXk/TkptrVIN82I/AAAAAAAAARE/OOnXA3LaEc8/s1600/Mojo+Moxy+Poppy+Pump.jpg" /></a>I feel sooooo bad because this blog is my baby, I have been neglecting her for months. I am a bad parent. Because I have been going through my own personal issues, I have failed to even jot down a note in reference to the thing I love and love to do. But I believe that it is useless and undermining to write only out of pain. I like talk about the issue and provide the solution (or at least the way I resolved the matter). </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><span style="font-size: x-small;">***Disclaimer Any advice or suggestions you receive here are my opinions. I am not your therapist. Cuz I am crazy too. Smile.</span><br />
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The reason that I have been away so long is because I have been in my own emotional/personal trial. And I didn't even have words to express everything I was thinking, feeling, and going through. I had so many issues and things that I haven't dealt with but pushed down so hard that when they came up, boy was it a sight to see. It is never good to repress stuff, because it does come back and you have to deal with it. It could be days, weeks, months, years but sister it is coming back. Now you can keep pushing it down, but eventually it reflects in your personality, your conversations, your actions and your love for others. What is it that people say, "Your actions speak louder than your words."? That is what happens when bitterness sets in. <br />
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Recently, I had an opportunity to talk about the effects of bitterness. I believe that so many of us, have that root as the Bible calls, it but we mask and nuture it and it continues to grow. Then when it is out of control, we simply say, I don't know where that came from. Ahhhh, yes you do.<br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">The reason why I chose bitterness is because I have been truly effected by it. Until I studied what it was, I had no clue. Bitterness starts with hurt, then turns to anger, then resentment, then it's on and popping. I told the class that I have a process when things hurt me. It starts with the hurt, turns into an essay, then it is a 12 page paper, I make it a novel, then it's a 30-second commmerical, to trailer, to movie. Halle Berry plays me. </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">For the rest of this year, I have declared that I will use my power of forgiveness and use it for good. I have also decided that I can veto any thought, word, or decision that negatively affects my well being. Oh yeah, I am trademarking the phrase, "What if I don't Want TO?" </div><br />
I like that phrase because it stumps people. If you are real honest and say you don't want to, what can a person do but accept your honesty. Period. <br />
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So back to my neglectful parenting. My baby almost starved. I have gotten emails, questions and some really bad looks because I haven't written a word in months. Sorry! I am making a dedicated commitment to give you something each month. Something good and Godly. Something that makes you laugh. Something you can use. <br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">I will also be working on a few projects as well during this time and I promise to keep you in the loop. I am so excited to be connected to women who encourage me and who are truly seeking my good. Recently I have met two women, who I am sure will have a positive impact on MiVida (my life). I look forward to learning and gleaning valuable tools from you both. </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Thanks for bearing with me during this time and I promise to give you something every month to encourage you to KEEP Walking in Faith!!!!</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Love Ya All,</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div>MiVidaAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-33744775783132668182011-03-04T19:04:00.000-05:002011-03-04T19:04:30.620-05:00You Gotta Watch Secret MillionaireRecently I was watching the Oprah show and saw a segment that highlighted a new show called, “Secret Millionaire”. As I watched the show, I thought that the concept was good but it did not move me enough to want to watch the show. I was glad to see this young secret millionaire, Dani Johnson, giving back to the community. I thought it was a noble idea.<br />
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A few days later, I received an email that sparked my interest. I decided to investigate and boy am I glad I did. I decide to do a review. So here it goes….<br />
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ABC has a hit!!!! Much like the other show that did the boss going into work with the staff, this show is a reality check for many people who don’t realize that there is a world out there that needs our help. <br />
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I like that fact that “Secret Millionaire” is not about the super high profile millionaires, but about people who have a story to tell and have never forgotten where they came from. Their focus is on helping the community, not an individual person or company. ABC is highlighting charitable organizations that need help from us all, not the secret millionaire.<br />
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The first millionaire is Dani Johnson. She is a self-made millionaire and the author of several successful audio/video series, like “Recession Proof Your Income”. Her personal story of triumph is amazing, from welfare to wealth. Even though she is now a millionaire, Dani still understands the impact of poverty and what a helping hand will do for someone. Her heart and love for God’s people is exemplified on this show. The mission of the show is to find some local charities and then bless them with a donation from the Millionaire’s coffer. The idea is to really put some consideration into who gets what and why.<br />
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Dani is thrown into the impoverished neighborhood of Western Heights, Tenn. She is given only $40 for the week and must go out and find someone to help. At first, I thought, this is way too easy. But in reality it is not. I appreciated that the Network placed her into one of the hardest hit neighborhoods and she could see the devastation of the neighborhood, just by driving into the town. Then she was left to field her way from there. I appreciated that Dani was not afraid of venturing out in the neighborhood and talking with the local people. She learned of three organizations that were local the Western Heights that she could help. <br />
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• Love’s Kitchen http://thelovekitchen.org/<br />
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• The Joy of Music School http://www.joyofmusicschool.org/<br />
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• Special Spaces http://www.specialspaces.org/<br />
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In the premier episode, Dani Johnson, revisited her past issues, such as homelessness, welfare, sickness and poverty and how she had experienced similar circumstances. Because she was able to quickly and correctly identify with those she was helping, I felt that the story line was very credible. She even gave a special gift to a family whose daughter is very ill.<br />
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Secret Millionaire shows the rest of the world that we all can do something to help someone else and even though Dani did not mention or reference the Lord in her episode, she was found reading the Bible, praying on a rock and with others. This is not so say that was her only criteria for giving but it shows her love for people through the heart of God. This was truly an inspiration to see. I am glad that the Network allowed the content to be seen.<br />
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The Secret Millionaire is a wonderful show that captivated, compelled and inspired me to take the next step in local giving. I feel that this show will do quite well and is going to be the next, “Extreme Home MakeOver”. The value of what they are doing, especially in this economy, is priceless. I loved every minute of the show and hate that there will be commercials.<br />
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Way to go ABC and Secret Millionaire it is your next Sunday Night hit. I’m telling everyone I know to watch and help keep this show on the air. In these times, we need more inspiring, responsible and positive television. Tune in this Sunday, March 6, 2011 at 8:00 p.m. Watch with your family and let me know what you think!<br />
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MiVidaAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-29396923198899312222011-02-23T17:00:00.001-05:002011-02-23T17:00:05.180-05:00"Walking on The Water"<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-iwkLuDr0N3E/TWFYrGziegI/AAAAAAAAAQ8/Alk4VRq2kDA/s1600/walking+on+water.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" j6="true" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-iwkLuDr0N3E/TWFYrGziegI/AAAAAAAAAQ8/Alk4VRq2kDA/s1600/walking+on+water.jpg" /></a>At first I didn't have a title or theme per Se for the 2011 Mother's Day Banquet. I was just trying to see my way through and get the plan in motion. I knew God had a plan for our event, but I didn't have the clear picture of what He was orchestrating. I was just doing it, and doing it scared none the less. </div><br />
<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">When I shared with the Ladies of Faith, that's what I am calling them, they encouraged me to speak only positively over this event; not to say that I am scared. But the truth sets us free! I was scared. Not in the sense of fear, but overwhelmed, a little intimidated and with some trepidation about an event so large by my hand. I guess I forgot that this was not about me!</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">As I prayed about the event and I began to seek Him for direction, He showed me something! WE WILL BE AT COBO HALL! WE WILL BE ON THE WATER! We will be Walking In Faith on the Water!!!!!!!!</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">In all things, God has always provided and has shown me that He is in control. I am relying totally on Him for direction. </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">I HAVE FAITH THAT GOD IS WORKING ALL THINGS OUT! </div><br />
Won't you join me and my special guest for this experience on the WATER! COME!<br />
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<u><span style="color: purple;">MEET OUR HONOREES</span></u>.......<br />
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<em><strong>Minister Lorrie Barnett</strong></em><br />
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Lorrie Barnett is the mother of two wonderful children, who can attest to her extraordinary walk of faith. Although she has had personal trials in her life, she has continue to rely on the strength of the Lord to help her triumph. <br />
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Lorrie is a minister and member of Reconciliation Word Ministry. She uses her life stories to bless and encourage others. Lorrie ministers to people by showing them that although life will give you lemons, lemonade is possible. She believes that "God is Able" and her personal testimony exemplifies her belief. Come out to the Banquet and get to know her, she will surely be a blessing in your life.</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-82419298835402543462011-02-09T06:00:00.038-05:002011-02-09T06:00:15.668-05:00Isn't She Lovely!!!!<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_gKgYqn3VLLA/TVFuFcCXX5I/AAAAAAAAAQ0/EnE5KCDR6vA/s1600/walkinginfaithwebf.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_gKgYqn3VLLA/TVFuFcCXX5I/AAAAAAAAAQ0/EnE5KCDR6vA/s320/walkinginfaithwebf.jpg" /></a>Our 2011 Mother's Day Banquet is well underway. I am so excited because our new logo, flyer, and vision is completely overhauled. We are so grateful to AVIMA Designs for the wonderful work that they have done for us. Robert Deane is truly a master at this craft. Kudos......</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; text-align: justify;">All that being said check out our 2011 Flyer and Honoree Spotlight of the Week. Join us at the 2011 Mother's Day Banquet to learn more about our Honorees and to celebrate the women that you love. Bring your mothers, sisters, friends and daughters (husbands are invited too), as we honor some wonderful women of Faith!!!! </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"> SPOTLIGHT OF THE WEEK!</div><br />
<span style="font-size: x-large;">JANATHAN ABNEY AUSTIN</span><br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_gKgYqn3VLLA/TVFvmk8m50I/AAAAAAAAAQ4/xUXpi4X66x4/s1600/Pastor+Janathan.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" h5="true" height="200" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_gKgYqn3VLLA/TVFvmk8m50I/AAAAAAAAAQ4/xUXpi4X66x4/s200/Pastor+Janathan.jpg" width="155" /></a></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: x-large;"><span style="font-size: small;">Janathan Abney Austin is the Executive Pastor of the Bethel Abundant Life Center Church where Elder Jathan K. Austin is the Senior Pastor. She is the daughter of the late Bishop William C. Abney and Lady Lorraine Abney. Pastor Janathan is the founder and executive director of Ministry of Diamonds, a growing ministry dedicated to empowering and causing women to come to a deeper knowledge of Jesus Christ. Her strong passion is helping women to move from a place of despair and hurt to a life of abundance and joy.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: small;"></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: small;">Pastor Janathan travels the country speaking and imparting to women and men the power of God transforming love. Teaching them that I can give beauty for ashes. With a heart for hurting people, especially hurting women, her ministry focuses heavily on inner healing. Psalms 147:3 “He health the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.” Her prayer is that the word of the lord would come.</span><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
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</span><span style="font-size: small;">FROM MY HEART </span><span style="font-size: small;">TO YOURS</span><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
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<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: xx-small;"><strong>Pastor Janathan Austin notes that </strong></span><span style="font-size: xx-small;"><strong>Eleanor Roosevelt best describes where I’ve been and who I am when she said.</strong></span></div><span style="font-size: xx-small;"><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><strong></strong></span><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: xx-small;"><strong>“A woman is like a tea bag, you never now how strong she is until she gets into hot water.”</strong></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: small;">Stay Tuned For Info About Our Other Honorees</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
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</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-76870116690175582302011-02-04T10:18:00.005-05:002011-02-04T11:05:18.842-05:00Drum Rolllllllll Please........<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Hey Ladies & Gents, </div><br />
Can you believe that we are already into 2011? I have felt like I was in a whirlwind since the year started. I am almost finished with Community College and well on my way to my Bachelor's Degree!!! I think I can, I think I can.....<br />
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</div>With all of that being said, the most exhilarating and also breathtaking is the 2011 Mother's Day Banquet. This is truly my baby and I am pushing, pushing, pushing. I thank God for the FaithWithHeels family, who are the mid-wives, nurtures and even wind beneath my wings. When I feel like it is enough, their love, support, joy, hope and especially FAITH!!!! keep me going. Their prayers and calls of encouragement are vital to the success to FaithWithHeels. This beautiful women, love God and His people and never cease to amaze me. <strong>Heels off!</strong> to you ladies.<br />
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The 2011 Mother’s Day Banquet is well on its way. We are so pleased to announce that we have the pleasure of honoring some powerful women!<br />
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This year’s banquet will prove to be our very best yet. Guess What???!!!!!! We have booked COBO Hall. I still can't believe it, <strong><u>COBO HALL</u></strong>, y'all and we are celebrating on the water. We have the gorgeous Portside Ball room all to our selves. I am most excited to see all of you again this year. Mother's Day is a great time to celebrate the women in your life. <em> (Men are welcome to come and celebrate their moms, wives, daughters, and sisters.) </em><br />
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Join us on Saturday, May 7, .2011 at 10:00 a.m. Click the link and get your tickets today, you won’t want to miss this year’s celebration! <br />
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I am so excited about the future of FaithWithHeels and also the direction in which we are taking. Our journey is to establish a network of women who want, love and desire to see themselves and others strong and empowered. <br />
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I believe that we have some women who will encourage you, empower you, edify you and inspire you to become the best you yet!!!! They have overcome obstacles, had great challenges and even major trials but my Lord, you <em><strong>have</strong></em> to hear about their TRIUMPHS!!!!!!<br />
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Here is a list of our 2011 honorees:<br />
<em><span style="font-size: x-small;">(Each week we will give a brief bio of the honorees to whet your appetite.)</span></em><br />
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<strong>Pastor Janathan Abney-Austin</strong>, Ministry of Diamonds<br />
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<strong>Lorrie Barnett</strong>, Reconciliation Word Ministry<br />
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<strong>Delores Benett</strong>, North End Youth Improvement Center<br />
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<strong>Lori Robinson</strong>, B.L.A.C. Magazine Detroit<br />
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<strong>Drs. Lee & Hakim</strong>, Synergy Health<br />
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<strong>Mattie McKinney Hatchett</strong>, Oakland County Women’s Commissioner<br />
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<strong>Lady Chantell Marshall</strong>, House of Prayer, Detroit<br />
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<strong><u>Charitable Honorees</u></strong><br />
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<strong>Geneva Jackson</strong>, Sara’s House<br />
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<strong>Kalyn Risker</strong>, S.A.F.E. NewSafeStart<br />
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<strong>Erica Murray</strong>, Break Through the Veil <br />
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FaithWithHeels is designed to be the hub, the center, the connector of all of your talents, gifts, businesses and even your thoughts. We want to share your lives and journeys with the rest of the world. <br />
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Check Out our Honorees:<br />
<a href="http://www.ministryofdiamonds.net/">http://www.ministryofdiamonds.net/</a><br />
<a href="http://www.neyic.org/aboutus.asp">http://www.neyic.org/aboutus.asp</a><br />
<a href="http://synergyhealthpc.com/">http://synergyhealthpc.com/</a><br />
<a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/House-of-Prayer-Institutional-Church-of-God-in-Christ/107749232620352?v=info">http://www.facebook.com/pages/House-of-Prayer-Institutional-Church-of-God-in-Christ/107749232620352?v=info</a><br />
<a href="http://www.oakgov.com/boc/elected_off_bio/hatchett.html">http://www.oakgov.com/boc/elected_off_bio/hatchett.html</a><br />
<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://lorirobinson.com/About.html">http://lorirobinson.com/About.html</a></div><br />
<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Keynote Speaker: Erika Murray <a href="http://www.breakthroughtheveil.com/welcome-home/">http://www.breakthroughtheveil.com/welcome-home/</a></div><br />
<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">SAFE ~ Kalyn Risker <a href="http://newsafestart.org/">http://newsafestart.org/</a></div>Sara's House ~ Geneva Jackson <a href="http://sarashouse.org/page.php?id=2">http://sarashouse.org/page.php?id=2</a><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">In the meantime....Keep Walkin' In Faith,<br />
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<em><span style="font-size: x-small;">Shoes by Bagdley Mischka ~ Humble II</span></em></div><br />
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<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="http://www.faithwithheels.org/">http://www.faithwithheels.org/</a></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-63451346798082045992010-11-05T13:17:00.003-04:002010-11-05T14:05:18.516-04:00It's Fall Y'all<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_gKgYqn3VLLA/TNQ8Yp07ADI/AAAAAAAAAQM/teh6_v9zbgs/s1600/Vince+Camuto+Alician.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 212px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 244px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5536116236187533362" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_gKgYqn3VLLA/TNQ8Yp07ADI/AAAAAAAAAQM/teh6_v9zbgs/s320/Vince+Camuto+Alician.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#ff6600;">Fall Is Here</span><br /><br /><div align="justify">What comes to mind when you think about fall? I usually think of cold weather, catching colds, high heating bills, snow and shoveling. I can truly say that I have not been a big fan of Fall. As a child, I didn't care that it was cold outside, I just wanted to keep playing. As I grew into a teenager and the coats got shorter and thinner, the biting air would literally freeze my behind off. In adulthood, I drag out the heavy, long coats and still cannot seem to shake the chill that runs through my body. Fall...I was definitely not a fan.</div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">This year as I was driving down the street, I recognized how beautiful the trees were, with all the colors they had on them. </div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">My mind does marvel at the beauty of the season and all of the magnificent work the Lord has put into it. </div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">I saw the rolling clouds and how they reflected the light as the sun went down. I saw the sky change from gray to blue in just a matter of minutes and I had to say "How GREAT is our GOD!" </div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">His handiwork is all around us, and all I could see is the impending cold (and flu) season ahead. </div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">Well the buck stops here, little <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">Missy</span>. I am challenging myself to become more selfless and less selfish, this season. Many things I don't do because "It's too cold outside, " but what if I had to live in that state for an unknown amount of time? What if I had to make my home in a tent or under a bridge? I have to appreciate the fact that the Lord makes everything new and that Fall and Winter are a time of regeneration. It is an opportunity of thanksgiving and gratitude for all He had done for us. </div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">What if I didn't know where my next meal was coming from? What if I lost everything? Because of the Lord mercies, I am not consumed, therefore, my heart goes out <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">every time</span> I see someone in a homeless shelter or out on the streets. I have learned to keep some change in the car, so when I see them, I can give them a few dollars to make it through. </div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">This holiday season, I am going to energize my house with the outpouring of thanks for the things we do have and gratefulness for the ability to give to others. For Thanksgiving, I am extending my hand to help feed the hungry, homeless and even those without families. My children and I are not talking the talk, we are walking the walk. (I have some of those shirts if you need one, smile). </div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">During the Christmas holiday, I am asking each one of my children to contribute some of their Christmas funds to help buy a meal for a family. You can do the same or something like it for someone else. </div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">I would like each of you to pass this post on, and ask your co-workers, neighbors, classmates, and friends, to join me as I go out into the community and help others. I am looking for opportunities to be a bless, so if you know of some, email me at <a href="mailto:faithwithheels@gmail.com">faithwithheels@gmail.com</a>. The purpose of <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">FWHs</span> is to be a resource network, so we want to know about things happening in and around our communities. Help ME, HELP OTHERS!!!!!</div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">Let us help you spread the word! Help us spread the Word. Check the newsletter for opportunities not only during the Major Holidays' (Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years) but <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">allllllllll</span> year long!!!!</div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">Your hands mean a lot to these organizations, your skills are needed and your life is a shining example of Love in Action.</div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify">Keep Walking!!!!!!</div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">MiVida</span> <span style="font-size:78%;">(also, I think that it would be great for someone to get these boots for me, be selfless why <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-error">dontcha</span>!)</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;">Vince <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-error">Camuto</span> ~ <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-error">Alician</span></span></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-11986442280726653952010-10-07T09:48:00.005-04:002010-10-07T11:01:26.760-04:00Guess Who's Back?!<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_gKgYqn3VLLA/TK3gRvnk-yI/AAAAAAAAAQE/HbpV2fqXM_A/s1600/Bossy+Carlos+Santana.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 135px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 135px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5525318913298332450" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_gKgYqn3VLLA/TK3gRvnk-yI/AAAAAAAAAQE/HbpV2fqXM_A/s320/Bossy+Carlos+Santana.jpg" /></a><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">Hello All,</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">It has been quite a while since I posted on the blog. I took a little hiatus to gather my thoughts, reflect on my life and still my mind. </span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">Sometimes it is important to begin to prioritize our lives in such a way that we come first. Since my last post, I have taken some time to grow a little. </span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">Recently I posted on my twitter account, my feeling for the day. It was, "Patience....priceless, truth....golden, me....growing." </span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">We all are in need of patience in some area of our life. I have been tested lately on the road in the car, in my finances, sometimes lack thereof, and in my relationships as it pertains to patience. </span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">Am I able to wait? Do I understand or empathize with the views of others? Do I hold my peace? Two wonderful women in my life have given me some powerful acronyms for W.A.I.T. (one is Will Answer In Time and the other is Why AM I Talking.) </span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">Patience ~ In patience I learn that the Lord (will answer in time) and much speaking does not avail much, so (why am I talking). I know that patience avails to me more than if I act in haste. Sometimes the wait reveals things that would not be exposed if I moved to quickly. Patience is truly priceless.</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">Truth ~ I do believe that we should speak the truth in love. And that our words should be seasoned with grace AND salt. We should desire in grace to edify and encourage but in the midst, the salt will correct, sting but heal others. Truth is a means of freedom. Truth has been tested and when we operate, speak and act in truth we are tried and purified, just like gold. Truth is truly golden.</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">Me~ What can I say about me? I choose to be true to myself. I choose to surround myself with people who will have patience with me as well and will speak the truth to me. I am still in a molding and shaping process, even at the age of 40 but I know that the reality is, I have to make changes that have a positive impact upon my life and those that are around me.</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">These are three attributes that I choose to work on for the rest of the year. Since there are three months left before 2011 (WOW), I have an opportunity to work on each one every month and build upon them. </span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">Take the challenge! Think of three things that you can work on until the year is out and focus diligently on doing them daily. You pick, you decide and you do it. I believe in you!</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">As I move forward in my FaithWithHeels endeavors, I pray that each of you come along for the ride and work with us to do great things in the communities in which we live. We are hosting a SHOP for A CAUSE at Macy's on October 16th (any Macy's). Contact me to get your tickets $5.</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">Thanks for walking in faith with me,</span></div><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"></span></div><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"></span></div><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">MiVida</span></div><div><span style="font-size:78%;">Shoes by Carlos Santana ~ Bossy</span></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-83238047403318420582010-08-24T21:32:00.004-04:002010-08-24T22:06:46.210-04:00Oh No! Summer is Gone.<div id="ms__id23"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_gKgYqn3VLLA/THR6XoKAUkI/AAAAAAAAAP0/LzY44bfA6Y0/s1600/Michael+Antonio+Kiley.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5509162790515921474" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 156px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 142px" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_gKgYqn3VLLA/THR6XoKAUkI/AAAAAAAAAP0/LzY44bfA6Y0/s320/Michael+Antonio+Kiley.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div id="ms__id22">Remember when Summer was three whole months long?<br /><br />I can recall when summer was full of lazy days and warm nights; running through the backyards of our houses; staying outside till the mosquitoes had indulged on our blood; catching fireflies and eating toasted marshmallows off of sticks we found in the yard (yeah, it was safe to do that). Those were the days. Summer was full of water fights and starry nights and we had all the fun we could ask for. We didn’t have cable just 2, 4 and 7; we did have Atari but only the “rich” kids, so it wasn’t one per household. We didn’t have T.Vs in every room, so you watched what everyone else watched and when you did get a T.V, it was the used black and white that had a broken knob.<br /><br />Life was not as fast paced as it is today. There was only one phone in the house and you were blessed to have a two way. We did get along without cell phones, we knew what time to come home and we were happy about it.<br /><br />As time marched on, those carefree summer days turned into much needed summer jobs to support our teenage plans. Even then it seemed that summer was so much longer. Our days were spent saving up our money and planning to go to Cedar Point or to the Fireworks Downtown by the end of summer. We loved the Bob-Lo boat and family barbeques. Summer was family time.<br /><br />Adulthood has sucked all of the fun out of summer and squeezed all of the time into one long week. Suddenly summer seems to fly by me with no calling card or apparent traces that it has even come. Sometimes I can catch it’s coattails during a two day staycation or overnight trip with the girls.<br /><br />Somehow…..This summer my entire calendar has been swamped with plans, programs, and procrastination. The time that I carved out for me has been merged in with life, business and church plans. It is important to keep our priorities in perspective.<br /><br />This year I vowed that I would make time for things that truly mattered to me and for the most part, I have kept that promise to myself. I have initiated and become involved with issues that concern me, intrigue me and compel me to help someone else. However, I must admit that I have been seduced into some plans that had not originally had my name on them.<br /><br />As soon as June rolled in my entire calendar became packed with so many events that my head begin to spin. Even though, I do count them all worthy of my time, I just feel like they all happened in one week.<br /><br />This summer:<br /><br />I attended two weddings on one day. Both were beautiful and romantic.<br />Prepared myself for the end of the school year and the girls being home all day.<br />The 4th of July which of course, that drags along for the entire weekend.<br />Visited family in the hospital.<br />Prepared for a dance concert. Oh the rehearsals!<br />I celebrated the birthday of my youngest daughter in Muskegon.<br />Attending Appreciation events, held meetings and hosting programs.<br />Danced in the concert and attending another Dance Concert.<br />Attending my Sister-in-laws wedding & reception, then hosted a conference for Girls in Cleveland, OH the following week.<br />My daughters participated in the Children’s Day at church. So again rehearsals were in order. Today is the birthday of my oldest daughter, so the celebration continues until the weekend while, Thursday is both school registration and also a pampering event in Novi (morning and night).<br />Alas…Summer is over…..Next week school starts for both me and the girls, so we will be back in the saddle again for Fall and Winter. Anxiously awaiting Summer again.<br /><br />I am “Falling”, into Fall with much reluctance. It means that I am back to the routine and schedules of others, classes to attend and trudging through the cold and snow. Therefore, it is important to enjoy my summers.<br /><br />My encouragement to you is to make the most of the time you have. Make sure to enjoy the rest of your summer. Lay in the hammock and swing. Catch fireflies. Toast marshmallows and run in the backyard. Blow bubbles and take a dip in the pool. Take a vacation (plan for the one next year). Say no!!!! Say yes to you and keep your own schedule. Do things that matter most to you and be excited about your life. Sometimes it is okay to be a little selfish with you and your time.<br /><br />Each season release some of the plans, pressures, obligations that weigh you down and don’t be too quick to fill that time slot. Leave it empty and mull it over for a while. You will indeed find something fulfilling for the slot but it must be empty first. You might want to learn to bake, read a good book, write a book, knit or sew. You might just want to have an hour of peace. Go ahead you deserve it. Family and friends will understand. They are bogged down too and appreciate a non-invite to get their laundry done.<br /><br />In the mean time…Keep Walking,<br /><br />MiVida<br /><span style="font-size:78%;">Shoes by Michael Antonio ~ Kiley<br /></span></div></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-21536576925045224672010-07-16T13:38:00.006-04:002010-07-17T12:24:41.646-04:00Living Beyond Limits<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_gKgYqn3VLLA/TEHYXeqNKtI/AAAAAAAAAPs/xfczSPJVug4/s1600/bcbg+dorothy.bmp"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 235px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 211px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5494910918247394002" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_gKgYqn3VLLA/TEHYXeqNKtI/AAAAAAAAAPs/xfczSPJVug4/s320/bcbg+dorothy.bmp" /></a><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;"><em>Struggling doesn't always make you stronger; sometimes it can just make you tired. ~ Terry McMillan</em></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;">No where in the Word of God do I find the actual word struggle. Therefore, I do not believe that we have been called to struggle. I keep hearing people say, "it's a struggle or I'm struggling". But I cannot speak these words in peace anymore. I know that the Lord has not called us to a life of struggle. He has promised that life will be more abundant, if it is in Him.</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span> </div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">When I saw this quote from Terry McMillan (the famous, "Exhale", author), I knew that she knew. I am tired of struggling and I refuse to affirm my life in these terms. </span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;"><em>Here are the affirmations I choose to use:</em></span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;">I am victorious. </span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">I am living life abundantly. </span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">I am the head and not the tail. </span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">I am above and not beneath. </span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">I shall suffer no lack.</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">God is my source.</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">I am healthy, wealthy and wise.</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">I give and not take.</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">I believe to see, not see to believe.</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">I am a peacemaker.</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">I am going to Jamaica!!!!</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span> </div><div><span style="font-size:85%;">Ladies, we have so much power in the words we speak. Make your own affirmations, speak over yourself, encourage yourself. We have to use the positive to overcome the negative in every situation. As I move forward in my life, my dreams are getting bigger. So I cannot allow negativity, doubt or naysayers to infiltrate the positive words I know have been spoken over me. I want to be with people who are ~ Living Beyond Limits. And I want to affect people so much that they also want to live beyond limits. </span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;">I no longer see a boundary to my dreams. I believe that they can exceed the capacity of my vision and break all barriers of the terms I set. I believe that God is just that BIG that He can increase my faith beyond what I can see. </span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;">My dreams/life cannot be limited by finances, education, family, or people. My dreams are bigger than just me. My dreams include you and your dreams, so they are limitless. In Hebrews 11:3, we are told that "through faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God, so that things which are seen were not made of thing which do appear." In other words, God dreamed and spoke non-existent things into being. What we see today, is a manifestation of a dream/vision of one.</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;">I challenge each one of you reading this to really take some time and dream. Your dream should be for you. Write it down and review it for 30 days. Speak life into it. If it is a promotion, a scholarship to school, a business, a plan for your finances, etc. The key is to write it, make it plan, read it and run!!!!! Live in faith that the vision will come to pass. (Habbakuk 2:2-4). Don't stop starting to dream, because you might have to start over but don't <em>struggle</em>, LIVE!!!! </span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;">Enjoy life where you are, struggling is making you tired, not stronger. </span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;">I am learning that can find peace, joy and refreshing in small things. I can look beyond the limits to the hills, where I know I find my help. I can sit still and hear what the Lord is saying. And I can speak life, love, peace and grace unto the hearers. I can edify and glorify God through my life, my words and my good works. I can have all that He promised. I can LIVE BEYOND LIMITS and so can you. I'll be right here cheering us on!</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;">Keep Walking in Faith,</span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;">MiVida</span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3483477771862721329.post-59229780659539877402010-06-23T13:42:00.003-04:002010-06-23T13:53:09.413-04:00Keep Quiet<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_gKgYqn3VLLA/TCJIZbV0FAI/AAAAAAAAAPk/t9K-nQIvv7w/s1600/Michael+Kors+Cutout.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 138px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 173px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5486026897763865602" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_gKgYqn3VLLA/TCJIZbV0FAI/AAAAAAAAAPk/t9K-nQIvv7w/s320/Michael+Kors+Cutout.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><div align="justify">Psalms 141:3, James 1:19<br /><br />I am learning to keep quiet. This is a challenge for me because I have an opinion about everything. I can weigh in on almost any subject and express, stress and validate my point because it is my opinion. But does my opinion really matter?<br /><br />I took a reflective look at myself and realized that the very things that I instantly observe in others are parts of my own character. Some I like and some I dislike. In each of us, there are things that we need to improve upon and I am taking that journey in this season of my life.<br /><br />As I desire to help others, I want to truly be helpful. I cannot take the baggage of the past into new friendships and dwell on the issues of old relationships and then try to separate the two when it is convenient. It just can’t be done. Just think about when a person moves from one home to another, typically they throw all of the trash out before moving to the new house, otherwise, they have to sort through it all when they get settled. Normally, the trash usually ends up in a remote corner waiting to be sorted through. However, I believe that before I can move fully into the next season of my life, some stuff has to be sorted through.<br /><br />The lives that we lead are not myopic. Any given situation in our lives can be viewed in a multitude of perspectives. My view of a situation will be in direct contrast to someone else’s view. It doesn’t make my view irrelevant, just one sided. Because of this one sided view, I can miss details that often add value to the situation or conversation. That is why we must learn to keep quiet and listen more as the story unfolds. Many times, what I would quickly discard has great value and the things I hold on to a valueless. Not priceless, valueless (of no value). Since they hold no value, they do not require conversation or opinion. I am just going to toss it.<br /><br />This week I met with a friend who told me that my blog has helped her because of the words that I use. This made me happy because sometimes I feel that I am just talking and no one is listening. However, after this meeting, I realized that my words do have a positive effect therefore they must be edifying and full of light. Will I not get angry? Will I not be truthful? No, but I will choose my words carefully and have peace in the words that I choose. I will be quick to apologize for my mistakes and be honest about my faults, and I will listen more to the hearts of others and not always the words because I do want others to hear my heart when I speak.<br /><br />I encourage each one of you today to listen with your heart, don’t speak first, just listen; then use your words wisely. Watch what you say, say what you mean and mean what you say. There are people listening to the words and listening to your heart.<br /><br />Keep Walking,<br /><br /><br />MiVida </div><div align="justify"><span style="font-size:78%;">Michael Kors ~ CutOut<br /></span><br /></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09026320913030743273noreply@blogger.com1